Moving is stressful enough on its own, but throw in a couple of kids to the mix and you could find yourself pulling out your hair in frustration. Other people could be stressed as well as you. Children are frequently affected by the moving experience as well, which is why we have put together some ideas for moving house with children for you to consider.
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Discuss the situation with them.
The simple phrase “we are moving” might be confusing to younger children, so take the time to sit them down and explain exactly what they can expect when moving day finally arrives. Being able to introduce them to the concept will go a long way toward easing any fear they may be experiencing about leaving their old home and entering a new, and unfamiliar, environment.
Take them to see their new home if they have not already.
It is also a good idea to bring them along with you to a second showing or even just to take them for a walk around the neighborhood where you are relocating to help them become more aware of what is happening. Gaining their confidence and accustoming them to their new surroundings is essential, and by showing them to their new neighborhood and to the property itself, you will be assisting them in becoming accustomed to the idea of moving before it actually occurs.
Choosing a date for your relocation
Choosing the most appropriate moment to relocate is not always simple, but the more thinking you put into it, the better it will be for your child in the end. As opposed to moving days in the middle of summer vacation, some parents believe that relocating during the school year is easier for their children because it helps occupy their minds and offers them more time without them beneath your feet. The most important thing is to examine your position and work as hard as possible to integrate your relocation into your child's routine.
Make a list of all of the exciting new things that the neighborhood has to offer.
If you are relocating to a new region, there will be countless things for you and your children to discover and explore together. Make a list of these things and talk about them with your children. If you can get your children enthusiastic about the move, it will help you avoid those angry faces when the time comes and add to the sense of adventure that changing homes may provide.
Involve them in the process.
Another excellent technique to make the entire process more real and palpable for your children is to involve them in the process from the beginning. This could be something as basic as allowing them to assist you in packing particular items as you pack up your old belongings in preparation for the relocation and talk to your removal people, which you can find on iMOVE. The fact that you are including them will not only make them feel included, but will also provide you with the perfect opportunity to have those short discussions about how they are feeling without them coming off as forced and contrived.
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